So. . . I don't know exactly what that title is supposed to mean, but I was forced to type something. Here's my thing: I am an attractive (or so I'm told) 21-year-old girl who just happens to be bisexual. I am not, however, looking for anyone to fulfill my "needs. " I have a boyfriend for that. I guess I'm in search of someone fun, attractive, smart, witty and talented with whom I can go out dancing, clubbing, coffee-shop hopping, movie-seeing, good-time having and so forth and so on. I have a two-year-old son who spends 4 nights a week with me and I'm involved with a band. Needless to say, I haven't had much of a chance to make friends around here. Anyway, if this sounds like something you'd be interested in discussing further, go ahead and get in touch with me. I promise. . . I'm a much sweeter girl than I may seem.

My "match" should be outgoing enough to counteract my shyness, but not with such overpowering bravado that she causes me to shrink into nothingness. She should be able to carry on an intelligent and meaningful conversation with me for at least as long as it takes me to cook dinner. She should say and do things that stimulate me in ways I forgot that I could be. She should have at least one talent that she's not afraid to show, but still possess the ability to act modestly and take joy in simplicity. Oh. . . I like pretty girls who take care of themselves, too. That's always a plus.