Beginning with the usual thing by which we define ourselves, I work in the creative arts. I am financially stable, nurturing, a voracious learner, creative, intelligent, educated, witty, often intense, sometimes geeky, always passionate. Often, I wake up with a full tank of ideas I want to burn off the minute I get my coffee made, sometimes not, but i am always productive in one way or another & never allow myself to become bored, as I have a rich "inner life" and don't require constant stimulation from other people. I DO require a peaceful space in which to do my work. I love chats over coffee,(anything from the mysteries of the universe to the funny thing my cat did), browsing flea markets, bookstores, movies, live music, stand up comedy, as well as cuddling in front of the fireplace, or parallel play--reading separate books together on the sofa, having friends over for Game Nights and Hen Parties. I think one person cannot be all things to another, but the bedrock is Chemistry, Commitment, Commonality, Compatibility and Communication. All pertinent things seem to fall under one of those headings. I prefer long term relationships to being single, although I am not actively seeking a partner--right now I am enjoying meeting lots of different women and dating as much as possible.

Please have some information about yourself in your profile, and a photo would be nice. I enjoy spending time with emotionally mature, educated women who are secure, not afraid of fun, comfy being female. If you are a dyke, a top Daddy, a boi, or otherwise gender-confused, PLEASE do not contact me. If i wanted to date men, i would be straight, wouldn't I? (grin) IF you think we might enjoy a date together, you'll have to contact me, as I am not a full member.