Well for starters I am a single mother of a 4 year old boy and a 3 year old girl. . . . . they are the most important things in my life. I am not looking for someone to be their father, they have gone pretty much their whole lives without one, and they don't need one now. . . . I'm about as real as they come. . . I take care of me and my own. . . I looking for friendship first. . . . . I firmly believe that a lasting relationship needs to start with a strong solid friendship. . . . I am very easy going, enjoy doing most things as long as the company is enjoyable. . . . . I love music and the out doors. . . . . I know how to dress up and be classy when it is needed, but I also know how to camp, fish and hike. I am pretty picky on who I spend my time with as I don't have a lot of free time. And what free time I have is very vaulable to me. I start school next month to get my AA in General Studies so I can move on to get my BA in Psychology and then my BA in Criminal Justice on top of working 40+ hours a week. . . . So I am looking for friend who will support me in all that I do. . . . and like me for me

He would be HONEST, no matter what, even if it makes me cry. I would rather cry out of honesty, than out of humilation by being lied to. He would be RESPECTFUL of me and the fact that my kids will always come first, as I am mommy and daddy to them, I am all they have. He would be EASY GOING, lifes too short to be uptight all the time. And please if you think you would like more than just a friendship with me, PLEASE have a steady JOB, a CAR, a PIC (as attraction is key to have more than just a friendship), and be RESPONSIBLE. I already have 2 kids to support, I don't need to be supporting a GUY too. I have already been married, so I'm looking to take things slow. I really want to get to know the guy. And of course he would be able to make me MELT with just one KISS. . . . . . . So if you think you have what it takes to put that SMILE on my face. . . . . send me a message. . . . . oh one more thing. . . . . the first one to buy me Mercedes wins. . . . . . just joking. . . . . just wanted to see if you read the whole thing. . . . As it is one of my biggest pet peeves for guys to message me based on my picture alone. . . . . . . . .