I'm looking 2 B friends 1st & getting 2 no 1 another. I do want a long-term relationship & 2 B married w/ kids at some point but we have 2 B able 2 get along & have fun & disagree respectfully. I want badly 2 do this whole marriage & father of my children thing once. I want 2 meet a friend, my best friend that I can tell my secrets,hopes,dreams,go 2 when I'm scared & spend the rest of my life w/. They must also B a good role model 4 the kids II hope 2 have. I want kids at some point N life & I just don't think I can compromise on that. I'm by no means trying 2 have kids tomorrow but it is like a long-term goal I just think I should lay on the table.

Most everything I want N a man has 2 do with how he will be as a father/husband/protector/provider/lover. If my son grew up 2 B like him would I B ashamed or by the same token if my daughter dated/married my husband would he B good enough for her? That is the test most guys seem to pass. Don't get me wrong it would also B nice if my husband is educated,easy going,honest, cute,sweet,my mate has 2 love me & adore me. I truly am a 1-man woman & expect the same. I think I am a great girl with a lot 2 offer a man. I no 4 sure that I want 2 make & keep a man happy. If I could find a guy that is as interested N keeping me happy as I am N him being happy then other people would B jealous of our relationship. I hate that I had 2 post an ad 2 meet new people but I'm not much of a bar/club person so I guess this is worth a try. I hate 2 say looks matter but as long as I am being honest I should, I mean I am not the best looking thing N the world but I do want someone I'm attracted to (as I'm sure U do 2. ) Although I like a lot of different looks; skinny,kinda fluffy, stocky; it just mostly depends on how U "wear it". I'm slightly over weight but working on it. Finally I have a basic account if U don't tell me UR email I can't reply. Sorry.