I am finding it necessary to add this preamble because of some of the responses I have had. I am not a member but yes, I can read my messages, but to reply requires I jump through hoops, so I cannot even say thanks to anyone I at least want to thank for their kind words. And if you haven't posted a pic, it's entirely possible I won't reply either UNLESS you at lease live close. No more fellas callin me shallow on this, ok? You probably wouldn't write to me in the first place if I didn't post a picture. And if you live hundreds of miles away, my bet is we won't date, and if all your replies to everything are I'll tell you later, there won't be a later. Working Mom, raising a seven year old daughter and loving every minute of it. But here's the deal. . . how do you meet someone if you're life consists of going to work, going to the grocery store, going home, going to work, going to the YMCA, going to youth sporting events, going home, going to work , going to your folks',. . . . well, you get the picture. I am a wonderful cook and quite content at home. . . my style is cozy and casual, and I am slow to burn. I don't bar hop, (who wants to date someone they met in a bar anyway?), I think I remember how to dance, and I consider myself to be quite intelligent and humorous. I smell like a combination of shampoo, baby powder and Shalimar, just in case you're wondering. I have been disappointed in people I have met on the net, probably because I put to much stock into it in the first place, but if you would like to become friends first then go for it.

I would prefer a man on the tall side, as I am not a shorty, and I feel more feminine around a bigger man. He doesn't have to be rich in any other way except in character. Handsome is in the eye of the beholder, but chemistry is a must. I don't have many prerequisites because if you limit yourself that way you may never find what you "think" you are looking for. Just don't be a game player or an abuser. Hey, by the way, if you are a paying member on this site, why wouldn't you bother to post a pic or at least have something to say? Thanks for stopping by to take a look.