I have come to accept that I am attracted to men that are thinkers. Ones that have there mind active all the time willing to explore and grow . I am always looking at new business ideas and would love someone who enjoyed the same. I have been everything from a gemologist to an options trader to a breeder on award winning show dogs. I would like to meet someone is around my own age and who has children and is involved in their lives , even on a part-time basis. Mine are with me only part -time , but yours are welcome . I love to be surprised. I am more impressed by the effort you put forth than the expense of it. You should be very comfortable whether you are in jeans or black tie , but jeans and cuddling are prefered. Your confidence should be something I notice about you early on. I am impressed with men that can express themselves whether it be in the office , socially or the bedroom.

A family oriented man with a sense of humor. A man who can also create quality time for himself as well as his family. He should be enjoy being a great dad and then become a wonderful friend and lover. He should take pride in his appearance with a flair for the casual side. Clean shaven with a great smile a big plus. You should not be afraid to show affection. It is very contagious! I would like the man to ansers this to be very happy in his life with his children and his work and being looking for the anchor to secure him. You should be able to be in touch with your feelings and share them. Our time together does not mean always being together. We each come with things that are important to us in our lives that may not be as important to the other , but it should be respected .