Am a tall, hip, full bodied middle aged babe. Single for 10 years and originally from Boston MA. Lived in West Palm Beach, FL 15 years with hubby and daughter. Hubby and I split in 1994, daughter graduated college 2 years ago and she is in her own nest now. Am single n free and pursuing my happiness in Asheville NC because I love this place and the people who live here. Am a Bele Chere junkie and love outdoor festivals, concerts and all things lively. I drive a rav4 n can be ready for an impromptu get together anytime, anyplace. Love to explore new {to me} adventures. Am hoping my shitake mushroom log will bloom. I learned that in Asheville. I do not smoke cigarettes {and would not want a man that does} but i do partake of the cannabis herb of this good earth. Am bold, self assured and far from shy. I love books, art, playing cribbage, movies n hangin with my friends. Am every gay man's ideal "best" girlfriend but am wanting to meet a hetero guy who thinks i'm the coolest thing since ice cream. lol

My ideal guy is tall, kind, a self respecting family guy. He is widowed or divorced {for at least half as long as me} and has a full circle of friends n hobbies. Don't want a cigarette smoker and no heavy drinkers. You must like pets as i have 1 dog n 1 cat. Am hoping to find a gentle giant with grandkids. My daughter is in the bloom of her career and I don't see her wanting a child anytime soon. Like to find a man who includes walking at the top of his physical fitness list. Good humor a must. Tolerance a must.