Ok,,where do I start? I have looked for my one and only long enough. I have grown tired of feeling like the only one in the relationship. I need a friend and lover. Friends stand by you. They make you laugh when you feel like crying. They give you a shoulder to cry on and never pull it away when you lean. Friends have no need to lie. They always seem to have time for each other. They listen to each other,,,and it is never one-sided. One nighters and cybersex are not an option. Married men, please don't waste your time,,,I was the wife side of that triangle and I would never do that to another woman. If a true friendship is formed,,,who knows what it may lead to. . . .

There is a song that sums it up the best. If you want to be my lover, you got to be my friend. Love don't last forever, but friendship never ends. . . . . If you expect me to give my undivided attention in chat or phone, be prepared to do the same.