I am a happy, pretty much contented person. I have moved from the big city to a little town in the mountains. I love my boys and enjoy children of any age. It is so fun to hike, explore and poke around in old mining claims here in the forests near here. I own my own business and it has given me some freedom from the regular nine to five. I am a Christian and attend an Assembly of God church. It is so important to have a match in the area of faith. Without it, a relationship is hard to mantain. I love to spend time with someone I can share all the special moments with and enjoy doing whatever it is that makes them happy. I am a giver and a nurturer as well as a take-charge kinda person. (when need be). I have a heart that is far too soft and people tend to take advantage. There is blessings in that I suppose. I love the coastal mountains and beaches, fairs, rodeos, tidepools, playin' my ol' guitar and singing. I sang in a country band a few years ago as the lead female vocalist and we even played at Los Alamitos Race Track in Southern California ( That was lots of fun!!) and just had a blast. I sing karaoke now to keep the singing interest alive. I have even won a few singing contests (that was fun too!!). I like country western dancing, would like to learn more couples dances,though. I am a Christian. . . . I didn't subscribe to organized religion, I felt it was too self limiting, and for years lived and worshiped that way, but have now found a church home that has become a second family for us. It gives us a chance to worship God with a passion and abandon that is so missing in most organized church bodies that have a dry bones approach to the whole matter. I have a personal relationship with my God as well and that seems to be a perfect approach for me and my family. I am looking for the same type of religious bent in my soulmate. I love to pamper my mate and enjoy a passion with them that is uninhibited (lots to explore in that avenue) as long as it is reciprocated. I abhor selfish love, one that is one sided or greedy. I would rather be by myself than with the wrong man. I don't like the modern day slick talker and the one line phony. I am not into players or games. I want to find the old fashioned qualities of fidelity, sincerity, warmth, affection and loving care that is missing in most relationships (but is supposed to be the core of a lasting bond). I am looking for that lasting bond.

My ideal partner would think I am the only one in the world for him. Love my children and be kind, considerate, easy to smile and delightful to be around. Communication is so important, without it a relationship most always fails. God has to be a big part of the equation. Chemestry has to happen! How do you describe the chemistry of two people. . . . . . . . . . . . . . it is very intangible. . . . . . . . . . . . It must be mutual; and have a passion that can get each other over the times when they disagree. Yet see how much each is important to the other. We can share our thoughts and wishes, support each other in becoming the best we can be. I want a best friend, counselor, confidante and tease, someone to laugh with, cuddled with and cry with. . . . . . my hero in an age of villains.