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Just when you think that you have everything figured out in how you expect someone to be you often get a dose of their reality, which is not always what you thought it was. I learned this lesson this past weekend with Mr. Playful when I told him that I don't think that this is the right time for us to move in together....that we still have a lot to learn about each other before we take that step. It has only been about 6 weeks since we began our relationship. This was very difficult for me to tell him because I labored over this decision for quite a long while...I even talked to my grandmother who told me that she was married 6 weeks after she met my grandfather. But that was also a different time. She is an old soul with a young mind and as much as she doesn't believe in living together before marriage she believes in my happiness and told me to follow my heart. My heart wants to continue in my relationship with Mr. Playful but I don't want things to move so fast where we are living together after 6 weeks and in 6 months we can't stand each other.
Mr. Playful took the news a lot better then what I had first expected. He understands that I am not ready for this stage in our relationship this soon. At this point Mr. Playful advised me that he is taking his commercial pilots license. Something I had no idea that he was even capable of doing. This is his dream job, the one that will put a smile on his face everyday. It was this that made Mr. Playful sit down and think that we are moving too fast. That we really don't know each other as well as someone should when first moving in together and that perhaps we need to take a break from 'us' to figure out what each of us wants.
This took my breath away. My heart actually stung as the words were being said and it was at that moment that I realized that I do actually love Mr. Playful and that it is not the idea of being in love. I think maybe it's too late to repair, as Mr. Playful wants to spend 2 weeks with no contact with each other to see what we really want out of this relationship. I can feel him slipping away.
82% of you thought that a couple should be together for a minimum of a year before moving in together to make sure you know and trust each other. Thanks for all the feedback.
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Rosie
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