I am 41 years old, divorced with 2 boys from a previous marriage so if children bother you please do not read any farther. I do enjoy lobbying for Fathers rights here in Vermont and I am not there to make friends. This shows I have strong family values and I have earned the respect of many and how the others feel about me I will not mention, but then agian they do not matter. I am a mechanical engineer. Not a big drinker but if offered a drink I will take it out of respect. I go to the gym regularly so I am in shape and get called a big teddy bear by people who know me. It is all good if they are picking on me it shows they care so I must be doing something right in my life. I like the outdoors fishing, hiking, hunting, camping, bbq`s, pig roasts along with yard sales, flea markets and such. I do enjoy cooking and baking and not half bad at it. I do like to eat a healthy diet. What you see is what you get because I do not put an act on for anyone. I believe a relationship based on communication, respect, honesty, compromise will last. I personally am not looking for a one night stand but a lady to walk beside me and not behind me for as long as she can put up with me. I am iluvrz05060 at the Y

A lady who likes kids, the outdoors, can laugh, doesnt mind being picked on and can give it right back, can be themselves with no acts, can go from hiking shoes to high heels and still feel like a lady, doesnt mind getting her finger nails dirty, a lady to grow old with, who isnt afriad to act like a kid but can be serious when needed. You tell me if you can put up with me or am I asking for to much in life?