I am a complex man who appreciates the power of a heartfelt connection whether it be with a friend or a lover. I believe in love, choice, the mind/body connection, deep warm kisses that last for days and the healing power of touch. I understand the difference between being needy and needing and acknowledge the power of present time in my life. I enjoy quiet evenings in and entertaining evenings out. I value a healthy mind and body, truth, trust, family, work, passion, play, and appreciate being able to see humor in life. I understand the dynamics of how energy works with the polarity of the sexes and believe that somewhere there is a woman who is ready to connect with someone like me. I value friendship and companionship, and also believe that many different kinds of relationships are NOT meant to be sexual in nature. I also believe that we co-create our reality with God and that life is a series of opportunities to live as we SAY that we want to live! Why not tell the truth quicker to the self and to others and be willing to ask for what you really want? I believe that we live our vision of ourselves. . not necessarily our goal statements

As for the idea of what am I *looking* for?? I cannot say that I am looking although I will say that I am not hiding. The woman I seek is a solid yet passionate woman capable of touching that place deep inside of me that yearns to surrender to love. With her eyes she can melt my knees and with her touch, she takes me to another world. She is solid, worthy of my trust and she is kind. She is real woman capable of loving and cherishing a real man, functions well in a real world, and can pilot an illusionary plane to leave the planet with me. . . . physically and otherwise. I want a playmate, a lover and a trusted friend and ideally, these three would be wrapped up into one amazing woman who is authentic, wise, spiritual, passionate and clear. . I want to meet someone who knows what they want in life and is open to connecting to someone who they would want to ultimately do life with. I want to meet someone who understands and honors who she is and is willing to understand and honor me for who I am. It is really about that simple. oh yes. . I want that *chemistry* to be there . . you know what I'm talking about. If I were to describe this ideal woman further. . . . She is a woman who has forgiven herself and others along the path of life that she has chosen to take and she does not live with anger and resentment today for injustices that may have happened in her life in any way in her past. She does not have hangups and judgements about age and IS capable of being emotionally available to herself and to a partner. . She is willing to love and laugh and live and be in present time! She is strong enough to be gentle and insightful enough to be strong. She is not threatened by my strength and she is safe to be vulnerable with. She takes great delight in my complexity and yet understands that I am really a very simple guy.