I want a lady who is in love with herself because if she is not in love with herself then how can she love me. Beauty comes in those who define what beauty is!!! I'm a man who still believes in fighting windmills and never resign to the fact that chivalry is dead. A true Gentleman knows how to be masculine and not macho. The biggest difference is the class one brings into your attitude. As the ancient Samuri warriors would know the art of martial tactics, they also knew the beauty of a flower arrangement for the tea ceremony. This is also prevelant in western culture where a armored knight is supposed to exemplify courage and honor but also be schooled in the finer things in life of courtly love. I believe that past traditions can be lived in todays modern society by acting like a gentleman and giving the respect to a woman that she is due. Sometimes the idea of equality has errased the wonderful differences between Venus and Mars. We need to celebrate those differences and say that in the end it is love that is our holy grail in life.

I believe there is no meaning of life but believe in the experiencing the existance of life. I do not just look for happiness in my life but look for all that pertains to life. I would rather experience the sublime in it's ahh because happiness is only a part of life. I would say I am a pragmatist for what kind of philospophy I live my life by. I believe in a higher good and higher deeds should be a rule for living. I am a man that has never been married but with the right lady, I would give her my world and love. I love art and music because it celebrates life. I see myself as a gentleman and was schooled well by my father on how a true gentleman behaves around ladies. "Eat, Drink and be merry because tomorrow you may die" is my motto and the good book understands that this is how the way to live.