First, I can not read your messages. I can read the title of your message. Ok, now onto other things more important. I have been told that I am not the conventional man by some of the women I have known. I am not sure what I do to deserve this but I know that I am always myself and I am honest with my emotions and thoughts. I know that I listen a lot because I really want to know what people think. Maybe that is it? I also have a good mix of a confident mature man and the playfullness of a young kid. I have not lost what I had when I was younger, I have just gained new facets of my personality over time. I like relationships where we explore what we like to do together. I have many things I like to do but when I am with someone what I am most interested in is learning more about them and doing just about anything. I love being active and doing things outdoors. I have been involved in outrigger canoe paddling recently and that has been a blast. I like to hike and camp although I don't do as much as I would like. Would you like to go? I love to go dancing with a woman that likes to dance. I think it can be the most romantic thing to do. A walk along the shore-line with the evening light is a nice relaxing way to spend an evening. I do have a wonderful job and career. I can tell you more about it if you like. I am not looking for a woman to fullfil me. I am looking for a wonderful woman who is sure of herself and is looking for a wonderful man who will give her the love of her life. Another note - I am not 39, I am 45. I put in the wrong year to be funny and now I don't seem able to change it.

A woman who has a grounded self-confidence, a passion for life that goes beyond selfishness, the eyes to see the wonderment in the rising sun in the morning and reaches out for happiness and dreams. A woman who does not need a man in her life but would love to ride the wings of adventure with a man to share her life, dreams, passions, with energy and of course a smile. There is more but I would love to hear what you are about and where you have been and where you would like to go.