Retired Military (serviced 21 years, 16 of it throuhout Southeast Asia), worked in Military Intelligence (if you can say those two words together without laughing), been retired now for about a year. I have been divorced since 94, and I got both my kids in the settlement. Been pretty busy until recently when my son moved to Oregon to go to college. I didn't think it was going to be as bad as it is being without family but its lonely now that he is gone. I've been trying to find different things to do as you can only fish so much (hahah). I have been traveling alot, been to Mexico and Costa Rico, I really enjoy traveling, just need someone to go with. I also enjoy eating out, movies, the beach (plently of that in Cape Coral (thats Ft Myers Florida). I just moved back to Florida from east Texas, just about the same in alot of ways so thats about whats up now!

I like women who are intelligent, indepentent who can be your equal rather then standing behind you. I've spent alot of time working with this kind of person and it works well for me. I would like someone who enjoys the same things that I do, as most people do I guess. I haven't had a serious relationsship since my divorce, I guess I haven't found the MRS Right yet. I'm very relaxed kinda guy now a days, just trying to do the right thing and maybe I'll meet someone who likes me for who I am and not play games as alot of men and women both do now days! This would be my ideal match!