Im an athletic outgoing guy looking for some local fun who knows what can happen, I have lots of fun stuff going on, sailing, powerboating, fishing, right from the dock out back. Im well traveled, well spoken, well educated. I did 6 yrs in USMC as a helo crewcheif then college. Im sharp witted and I can find the humor in most things. I live on the coast and I spend a great deal of my time on the water when im not working. I dont hang in bars but I will go by boat to a couple cool places with music and dancing. Lets hit the open water, explore, laugh, and really live. . . . . . maybe a relationSHIP CAN sail straight. . . . Im not abusive to people I care about I don't yell, play games, lie, cheat or steal. My son lives by this golden rule and so do I. I refuse to allow THAT kind of disrespect in my life! I just work as little as possible for the most money so I have lots of free time for life. The aquisition of wealth is not my game so much anymore, I live comfortably. As far as my love life? I have always been a serial monogamist, partially because sex and strangers dont mix well with me in a purely physical sense. I had my chance at marriage but failed in that aspect because there are certian lines that friends dont cross with each other, THATS respect When your in a relationship all those lines are broken down. Jealosy, time is tracked, your life becomes a joint effort you cannnot control. Living by someone elses idea of what your place IS, in a relationship, or else! LOL BUT! If your narrow of mind, squemish, afraid to fly, try something, or just plain chicken, im prolly not the guy for you. Im not into drug abusers, dog fanatics(not pet owners), mental cases, picky eaters, liars, game players, or those who refuse to take care of their own health. I do have a 16 yr old boy who lives with me, I have SOLE custody, he's cool. I want people in my life that like what I like, someone who can turn me on to new and interesting things. I refuse to settle. . . . . . Im not a paying member so leave good contact info please. . . . I am a family oriented guy I luv my boy and kids are fun in general. I am very tolerant, dont always like to "be in charge"

I am looking for a friend, activity partner or even a lover, wife? NAH! had a wife or two and it never works out as the respect factor goes to the curb when you have no private life and no trust. I used to be attracted to wild women all my life, I have a weakness for people that throw caution to the wind and just go for it. Now im older and im done with all the wildness, im a Dad. My match? Now if SHE has a scuba license? owns a boat, owns a fishing rod. . . . . . whoa! were talking one sexy lady!! just kidding. . . . She likes movies, theatre, art, gourmet food, nature, the sea. I know what it feels like to be totally in love (12 yrs ago) She went overseas to study and never returned, love can be so 1 sided sometimes ya know? I would like to try for "mutual true love" this time. . . Once the yelling and pettiness starts, the love takes a beating and changes. WHOS WITH ME ON THIS? To find one who understands what I do? Well I'd like to at least meet that person. Thats what this is all about right?