My friends say I'm a "catch" and a "nice guy". I think I'm just an average guy. I guess you'll have to contact me to find out who is right. Recently, a former girlfriend (we were at different places in our lives, but have remained friends) described me as tall, good looking, intelligent, outgoing, warm, generous, thoughtful and personable, having a great sense of humor and very romantic. "He'll take you dining by candle light, spin you around the dance floor to your hearts content, and bring you roses he picks by hand out of his lovely English garden. He cares deeply about those close to him. His character is strong and he stands up and fights for things he believes in. He is often blunt, focused and direct, but also playful and fun. . ". (And she was not even compensated for this endorsement!) I have two teenaged sons who are starting to experience their independendence, leaving more time for "me". I like to joke and laugh, but can be serious as well. I consider myself an easy going guy. Though I have varied interests, perhaps you could help me explore new ones? If the chemistry is right, I am ready to commit to a relationship in which we have mutual respect, admiration and intimacy. Oh, and did I mention dancing?

Wow. A tough question. There is no particular woman that I can describe. Its not one trait or another- its the whole package that counts. An attractive woman who creates a wonderful chemistry of emotional union, intellect and communication. Someone who is up on life but grounded in reality. She is able to accept me for what I am and not be committed to changing me. I would hope she is flexible and understanding, just as I hope that I would be understanding of her and of our differences, because none of us are clones and none of us are perfect. After the initial infatuation wears off, we still love looking into each other's eyes, we still laugh, we still enjoy being in each other's company, getting lost in long passionate kisses and look forward to facing the future because we are together. And, oh yes, she likes to dance.