I've been around long enough to learn that you have to accept what life deals you. It might not always be what you want or what you expected but if you accept it, learn from it, and try to make the best of it - your usually better off than denying, arguing, or crying that you've been dealt another crumby hand in the game called life. So taking that into consideration, my philosophy is: judge not, practice to be quiet, listen, learn and adjust. OK, what would i like in a relationship. Brad Pitt wouldn't hurt :-) but anybody that can smile, laugh, love, be faithful, respect and be considerate of others would be one giant step closer to a LTR with me. Its not always what's up front that counts. What's inside, behind your eyes, says a lot more.

Somebody who can ramp around and have fun. But aterwards, cuddle, kiss, relax and enjoy just being held and loved would be great. Sharing what life has to offer and creating what our lives can imagine is a nice goal.