I am a recent widow of 43 years. Am looking for someone to spend time with, have fun ,go places , and do things together. I have two grown children living in other states. I look more 40 to 45 than my age. Dom't have any recent photos to post at this time. Date must be discrete, and defenitly not swishy. I am independent Own my home A nice automobile, a p/u truck and am tired of giving everything to my children. I am not what you call welthy by no means, But able to live comfortable for the rest of my life. That's why I say. (NO FREE LOADERS) Buddy

Not a Gold digger. Must be able to support himself, and not to rely on the generosity of others. Discrete and nice looking as well. You don't have to be Mr America, just look well gromed, not a slob. I am not primarly interested in sex (but it helps) I just would really like to meet someone who is sincer, and is willing to communicate for a while before getting into the personals of things. A good friend if you will. Someone to talk to . I don't care for the Bars or Clubs. I do like Dinner, Movies, Sight seeing. Someone to lean on and be leaned on if necessary. Someone who you can tell all to, and listen to his all.