Well,it's a little weird writing about yourself. I'm a stable,normal,everyday type of guy. I am content,average looking,fit(work-out and run 3xwk) I have been single a little over 11/2 yrs ending an 11yr relationship. I don't usually venture out to bars and am a ittle shy by nature,which to some make me appear a little stand offish. Starting to date after a LTR is a difficult process. I like a good laugh,a good joke,going out with friends,but most of all spending a quiet night at home with someone special,cooking and enjoying a great dinner,cuddling up and watching a movie,traveling,biking,working out,tennis,sharing and discovering new things together. Sex is great and important in a relationship but so is just a HUG,a kiss,a cuddle,a card expressing your feelings. Little things can mean a lot,breakfast in bed and how to make your mate feel special in&out of bed.

A person to laugh and cry with,someone to disagree with,then make-up. A person who appreciates good food and wine but can pig out on pizza&beer. Staying in shape is important to me,but not a top priority,trust and communication top the list. Someone who is independent but is looking to confide in me the things that could make him and myself better individuals and even better as a team. My ideal match,would be easygong,smart,funny,knows and says what they want and has goals. Someone honest,dependable,masculine,but not afraid to let loose. Not into effeminate men,if I wanted a women I would be STRAIGHT! I'm looking for someone who enjoys life,without all the gay drama. I lost someone I loved more than myself and now I am alone,not trying to replace but trying to fill the void of being alone and not feeling loved. I want to meet someone who wants to settle down and can make a committment to somebody and be monogamous. Look forward to hearing from you!