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November 07, 2009
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Settling Down

Settling Down

It is starting to look like things aren't going to work out between Johnny Deere and myself. We just want different things at this point in our lives - well I do anyways. I'm not into dating just to date someone - to have someone around. I'm looking for someone to have a meaningful and lasting relationship with. I want to settle down and have a family in a few years and my boyfriend doesn't.

Maybe I'm just having the baby blues because all of my friends are settling down and beginning their own families. It's not like I even want a baby right now of my own -I want one more to play with and spend time with and be able to give back to their parents. I know that I'm not ready for a baby right now but I know that one day I will be and for me that is in a few years (not to mention my age clock is tickin' away I'm no spring chicken anymore as my grandmother would say) however my boyfriend doesn't want to start a family for a lot longer - 10 years minimum if at all. I get that for guys it may be easier to have a child in their late 30's to early 40's but for me as a woman I can't do that.

For all the commonalities we have there are so many differences there also - I mean if it was a matter of the small things like being a dog or cat person that would be ok. But for life plans to have such a vastly different plan and outlook I don't think it will work. We are meeting tonight to discuss things further of where we want our relationship to go. I am thinking positive because I do love him with all my heart and don't want to let someone go because we can't agree on our future together.

Do you want to be a parent? Are you currently a parent in the dating world? How do you do it? Send your thoughts and photos to the LoveVixen@iMatchup.com.

Rosie,
The Love Vixen

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