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Relationships in Real Life
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Relationships in Real Life
After my surprise last week of finding Mr. Playful in a compromising scene I wanted to do nothing but yell and cry and wanted him to know the meaning of the word hurt as I felt so hurt from this betrayal. I left without letting Mr. Playful explain himself and the situation and as I took the subway home I began to think of things I should have said to Mr. Playful. After all they do say hindsight is 20/20. I kept playing it over and over again in my head each time changing the scenario until I was dizzy and wasn't sure which story in my head that played out really happened. At that moment I just took a deep breath and closed my eyes. When I opened my eyes I didn't see the wonderful world that I have been imagining in my head for these past few weeks I saw reality. I had been so wrapped up in my relationship and my happiness that I had become clouded from real life.
In real life people make mistakes. In real life people get a chance to explain themselves. In real life you decide if the explanation is acceptable. I had acted like a child who didn't get their way; that I ignored Mr. Playful as he tried to stop me from leaving. I chose not to listen to his words when he said, "She's a co-worker that I grew up with and is married to one of my childhood friends". I didn't listen. How could I be ready for a real life relationship if I was unprepared to not listen to someone when things don't go my way? I called Mr. Playful and left him a message, as I don't blame him for not wanting to talk to me. I told him that I needed a break from everything...from us. It's not that I don't want to trust him...it's that I couldn't because deep down I don't think I could have trusted myself in the same situation because as much as I want to love this man, I am not at that point yet. As I left the subway and walked into the cold night air I wondered if I could ever deal with not having things my own way.... I can and I will!
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Rosie
Love Vixen.
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