Newsletters - Dating Q & A
Communication, Compromise and Cuddling.
Communication, Compromise and Cuddling. |
| Advice for the lovelorn. (For confidentiality purposes, names in the following letters have been changed.) Communication, Compromise and Cuddling. I received many replies from you when I asked if you are the 'real you' in a relationship. The following is a response that I received that was so very honest and open that this week I am going to share this with you all. This is the kind of attitude that we should embrace - Communication, compromise, and cuddling. We can all learn something from this kind of attitude to never give up and there is someone out there for us all. Sometimes it just takes a little time. Hi Love Vixen, I am a 61-year-old male looking for a wife, companion, riding partner, Best Friend and lover. I also manage a 5000-acre cattle ranch in N.W.Nevada. I have met several ladies so far in my search for that one wonderful woman for the rest of our lives. When they come to visit I treat them like goddesses but I do nothing different then I normally would. I don't change my lifestyle just to "Show Off" or try to impress these ladies. I don't put on airs to get them thinking I am the guy. They need to marry both the lifestyle AND me. After the visit is over and we marry I don't want them to find out I actually do scratch, burp, and occasionally smell bad. I work long hours and 7-day weeks. That is MY lifestyle. That is what I want to share with these ladies. That is what some of these beautiful ladies are looking for too. I know it is going to take a very special lady to handle the extremes. I have been a widower for 41 years so I have learned patience. I can marry a lady I have not slept with. My parents were married for 65 years and my brother married his high school sweetheart in 1967 and they are still very happy together and neither had slept with a woman before the wedding night. I CANNOT marry a lady whose cooking I have not tasted though. Before my father died he told me that a marriage needs three equal things. Communication, compromise and cuddling. Communication and compromise both make for better sex. I may not BE the best lover these ladies has ever had but with their help and communication and compromise I can be the very best that they will ever have. That works both ways too. Hoping you decide to print this letter in whole or in part and I am going to keep looking for that special lady as I have so much to offer her and many years yet to do it in. If you have a question on life or love send your thoughts to AskUs@iMatchup.com. |
