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In Love with Another Man's Bride
In Love with Another Man's Bride |
| Advice for the lovelorn. (For confidentiality purposes, names in the following letters have been changed.) In Love with Another Man's Bride Q. Dear Rosie, I have a good friend that I previously dated several years back but we agreed to be friends. We moved on and became great friends... I even am helping her with her wedding preparations. The problem is that the man she is about to marry is not the man she should be marrying. She should be marrying me! Herein lies my problem - we are only about 2 weeks away from the actual wedding day and I don't know what to do? I really believe that I'm in love with this woman but all my friends think that I'm doing it because I can't have her anymore. What do I do? Sincerely, Lost in Love A. Dear Lost in Love, If you really love this woman why would you continue through helping her with the wedding preparations? Why would you not have said something to her before 2 weeks to her wedding day? You are helping this great friend of yours through a stressful and emotional time. That's what it's like for most brides and you are a great friend for being there for her but not confuse what 'might have been' with what is reality. Be there for your friend for she is obviously in love with someone else that she is going to marry and you need to be there to support her and lover her as your friend as you always have. There is someone out there for you. You just haven't her met yet. P.S. Did I forget to mention that weddings are a great place to meet new people? Good Luck and keep me posted! Rosie, The Love Vixen If you have a question on life or love send your thoughts to AskUs@iMatchup.com. |
