DATING TIPS & HINTS
Putting The Fire Back In Your Relationship!
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BY: Rosie the Love Vixen
Feb-28-2006 The fire in your relationship is starting to smolder. It will happen to all of us at one point in a relationship where the passion that seems to intoxicate you with every breath...every touch of your partner slowly begins to diminish. There are a variety of reasons that this is occurring; stress, children, conflicting schedules, etc. The great news is that you can get your FIRE burning again by not focusing on the outside forces of your relationship but focusing on what you can control like quality time and intimacy on a physical and emotional level. Below are a few things to get the FIRE started again in your relationship...to keep it going it will be up to you! Sexy Notes - If you want your partner to think of you all day leave them a note in their pocket or on their dashboard telling them that when they get home to leave their clothes at the door because tonight you'll have dessert before dinner. Or go one further and take a Polaroid photo of yourself in your sexiest outfit or sans clothes and slip that into your partners' pocket or briefcase. Guaranteed either way your partner won't be late tonight! Public Displays of Affection - When you're out together for dinner or even just a stroll let your partner know that you are not only attracted but also passionate about them. Even something as small as your hand on their thigh at the movies or a walking with arms around each other (not just linked) will let them know you have something in store once you get home alone. Signature Kiss - Each time your partner leaves for home or work take an extra minute to create a bond through this kiss. Before you kiss your partner gently place your hands on either side of their face and then kiss them slowly for about 10-15 seconds. The addition of your hands not only creates sensuality but also subconsciously connects you on more then just a physical level. Not Saying I Love You - There are times that men and women both are unable or even uncomfortable with saying those three words I Love You. Do not feel rejected or upset instead try another way of saying I Love You that only you two know which makes the connection even more special and nobody else around will know what you are saying. One simple way is to say 143, where the number stands for the letters in the words - 1 - I, 4 - Love, 3 - You . Time Outs - Instead of discussing or even ranting about that co-worker or traffic when you first get home take a Time Out from the outside world for the first hour. Even though it is a good idea to let off steam so you don't stress out, don't make it your first priority when you come home. Take the first hour to enjoy each other's company by making dinner or having a glass of wine or cold beer and talking to each other. Rosie, The Love Vixen |
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